Why People Cannot "Grow Out" of Autism (and shouldn't have to)

Autism is a developmental condition characterised by differences in communication, behaviour, and social interaction. Despite increased awareness and understanding, misconceptions still persist. One common misunderstanding is the idea that individuals can "grow out" of autism. This belief stems from a lack of understanding about the nature of autism itself - the notion of being able to "grow out" of it is not only incorrect but can also potentially be harmful.

Understanding Autism as a Spectrum

Autism is often described as a spectrum because it encompasses a wide range of abilities, behaviours, and challenges. This variability means that two people with autism can have vastly different experiences and needs. Some may require significant support in daily living, while others may live independently and excel in their fields. The common thread is that autism influences how they perceive and interact with the world throughout their lives.

The Neurodevelopmental Basis of Autism

Autism is a neurodevelopmental disorder, meaning it is related to the development of the nervous system. Research has shown that autism involves differences in brain structure and function that are present from early childhood. These neurological differences are not something that can simply disappear over time. While individuals can and do make significant progress in their skills and coping strategies, the fundamental aspects of autism remain part of who they are.

Development Over Time

Children with autism often show noticeable improvements in various areas as they grow older, especially with appropriate interventions and support. Speech and language therapy, occupational therapy, applied behaviour analysis and educational accommodations can all contribute to these improvements. However, this progress does not equate to the person being able to "grow out" of autism. Instead, it reflects the person's ability to adapt and develop skills that help them navigate their world more effectively.

The Role of Early Intervention

Early intervention is crucial in helping children with autism reach their full potential. Studies have shown that early, intensive support can lead to significant improvements in communication, social skills, and adaptive behaviours. This progress sometimes leads to the misconception that the child has been able to "grow out" of autism. In reality, the child's development and behaviour have been supported in ways that help them function better in various contexts, while the underlying neurodivergent differences remain.

The Importance of Acceptance

Promoting the idea that people can "grow out" of autism can be harmful. It suggests that autism is something that can and should be eradicated, which undermines the acceptance of neurodiversity. Neurodiversity advocates emphasise that neurological differences, including autism, are a natural and valuable part of human variation. Acceptance and support are essential for the well-being and dignity of people with autism.

Living with Autism

Many adults with autism lead fulfilling lives, with careers, relationships, and personal achievements. They continue to experience autism in ways that affect their perceptions and interactions. Acknowledging that autism is a lifelong condition allows for a more realistic and respectful understanding of what it means to have autism. It also emphasises the need for ongoing support and accommodations throughout an individual's life.

Recognising and respecting the permanence of autism is crucial for fostering a society that values neurodiversity and provides the necessary support for all individuals to thrive. Let's embrace and understand autism as a lifelong journey together.

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Gareth Cobb