Self-Care Tips for Parents of Children with Autism


Parenting a child with autism is often a quite unique journey filled with both rewarding moments and challenges. It’s essential for parents to prioritise self-care to maintain their well-being and be the best support for their child. Here are some practical self-care tips you can implement to really give your best:

1. Prioritise Your Health

Regular Exercise: Incorporate physical activity into your routine. Even a 15-minute walk can rejuvenate your mind and body.


Balanced Diet: Eating nutritious meals provides the energy needed to keep up with daily demands.


Adequate Sleep: Ensure you’re getting enough rest. Quality sleep is crucial for emotional and physical health.

2. Build a Support Network

Family and Friends: Lean on loved ones for emotional support and practical help.


Support Groups: Join groups for parents of children with autism. Sharing experiences with those who understand can be incredibly comforting.


Professional Help: Don’t hesitate to seek therapy or counseling if you need someone to talk to.

3. Make Time for Yourself

Hobbies and Interests: Engage in activities you enjoy, whether it's reading, gardening, or painting. This helps in maintaining a sense of calmness and individuality.


Mindfulness and Relaxation: Practices like meditation, deep breathing exercises or yoga can help reduce stress and improve mental clarity.

4. Educate Yourself

Stay Informed: Learning more about autism can empower you and reduce feelings of helplessness. Knowledge about therapies, communication techniques, and educational strategies can make daily life smoother. You can also rely on our newsletter to keep you informed!

Workshops and Seminars: Participate in relevant events to stay updated and connect with professionals and other parents.

5. Manage Stress

Breaking Down Tasks into Steps: Tackling one thing at a time can prevent feeling overwhelmed.


Set Realistic Goals: Understand and accept that you can’t do everything perfectly. Prioritise and focus on what’s most important.


Time Management: Plan and organise your day, allowing flexibility for unexpected events.

6. Seek Respite Care

Temporary Relief: Utilise respite care services to take breaks and recharge. This helps in preventing burnout and maintaining long-term resilience.

7. Communicate with Your Partner/Co-Parent

Teamwork: Ensure open and honest communication with your partner. Share responsibilities and support each other emotionally.


Regular Check-ins: Set aside time to discuss how each of you is feeling and what you need.

8. Celebrate Small Wins

Acknowledge Progress: Recognise and celebrate the small achievements, both yours and your child’s. This helps in maintaining a positive outlook.

Positive Reinforcement: Encourage and reward your efforts and successes, no matter how minor they may seem.

By prioritising self-care, you can better handle the demands of raising your child while also maintaining your own health and happiness. Taking care of yourself is not a luxury; it’s a necessity for you and your family.

At HeadStart we understand the importance of providing information in accessible formats to meet the diverse needs of our service users. We can provide information in different forms for example in another language, large print, easy-read materials, and technologies such as text-to-speech or audio. To request information in another format, contact us by phone or email. Shanay.nj@headstartaba.org or mobile 07988860033.

Gareth Cobb